For many, overcoming shyness seems to be a very difficult thing to get over. Some may not even need to consciously overcome it. But for others, it may be a very easy thing to do.

Being shy isn’t an entirely negative thing, and there’s no need to be ashamed if we’re naturally shy. However, it’s undeniable that being shy does have its cons that hinder us from doing daily activities and things seamlessly.

For others, it’s easy to order fast food or call for pizza delivery, but for some, just picking up the phone is already something they dread.

Shyness is often influenced by behaviors a person gathers from their environment as a child. Still, genetics plays a huge role in determining whether a person is naturally shy or not. Don’t worry; shyness is very common, and it’s definitely normal behavior.

Overcoming shyness is a goal that many dreams of but only a few pursue. Mainly because it’s also part of their character to be afraid of going out of their comfort zone, but many just don’t try at all. So if you’re here watching this video, you’re off to a good start.

Overcoming shyness takes time. It takes several mistakes, awkward reactions and interactions, and a lot of stuttering for some. But don’t worry, that’s something everyone goes through.

Taking slow and steady steps forward should be your goal. Jumping out of your comfort zone and forcing yourself to immediately mingle with people may just end up shocking you.

Start small. Start with small interactions like ordering at the coffee shop for yourself instead of asking your friend to do it for you. Learn to make small talk with people you come across instead of hiding behind the comfortable cloak your earphones provide you. Learn how to start conversations and how to end them (don’t just leave).

Shyness can also lead to indecisiveness and submissiveness, so learning to develop your assertiveness is also important. Yes, it’s hard to say something if you’re uncomfortable with how a person is acting, but you shouldn’t suffer that way. Tell someone if you want something, tell them if they’re making you uncomfortable, and don’t be afraid to butt in when you want to suggest something else.

It may feel like it’s hard, but the hardest part will always be the beginning. Once you get the hang of it, the awkward conversations will turn to convenient small talk, the embarrassing moments will no longer take a toll on you, and you’ll finally be able to assert yourself instead of just letting things be.

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Carol
Author: Carol